Scapegoating
This is the final installment on this series of Scapegoating. First, I brought our attention to the fact that we as a country and even the church is living in the environment of “Scapegoating.” Next, I defined scapegoating; when one group or individual (usually those in power) blames another group or person for the trouble or hardship in the world. Then, I looked at why people/groups scapegoat. I believe that the reason why people scapegoat is; those in power blame the vulnerable for their hardships.
The question now is; How do we stop scapegoating?
I have researched this question and have not found very many sources as to how to stop-it. Most sources focus on how to stop being the scapegoat. To me this ridiculous. It is like they/we are still blaming the victim for their plight or blaming the scapegoat for allowing themselves to be in the position of the scapegoat. Why is there so much focus on those being scapegoated and very little focus on changing the belief systems and behavior of those doing the Scapegoating? While most of the advice to those being scapegoated is good. I believe that it is the wrong focus. Yes, it should be talked about. However, it should not be the majority of the conversation. Societal focus needs to switch to confronting those doing the oppressing/scapegoating.
So, to go along with the research here is a summary of some of the ways to stop being the scapegoat.
5 Steps to Stop Being the Family Scapegoat
a. Only accept what is truly your responsibility. Allow them to take responsibility for what is theirs.
b. Give yourself permission to step away.
c. Refrain from arguing.
d. Lean on your circle of support.
e. Remember compassion.
Again, I believe that most of the conversation should be towards those doing the scapegoating. If, you find yourself in the position of power and end up scapegoating. Here are somethings to consider:
1) Listen to the those who are considered the weakest and vulnerable in society (and are usually the ones being scapegoated. They just might be reflecting the true attitudes and beliefs of the dominate class/culture.
2) Reflect on your belief and behavior toward the perceived weak and vulnerable (scapegoated) in the community.
3) Reflect on what society/community ills you are blaming on the weak and vulnerable in society.
4) Take responsibility for your beliefs and behavior towards those who you are scapegoating.
5) Change your beliefs and behavior.
Remember, the reason why people scapegoat is to keep their power.
I am sure there are more things that can be done by those who are scapegoating to stop. I also, know that this will not be easy. It is never easy for those in power to give up their power.
However, it needs to be remembered that this power;
1) is perceived power. it can and eventually will be taken from you.
2) that you did not earned it. someone (s) else gave it to you
3) that you cannot control it. it often begins to control you.
4) remember because you are in power doesn't mean that you have the authority.
My hope is that those in power will be given courage and take the courage to change and stop scapegoating.
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